Maisie talks about her experience of exam pressure and how this impacted on her eating disorder.
A letter on a piece of paperThat they call a grade, a mark, a score. Just a letter on a piece of paper, But we are told it is so much more.
A letter on a piece of paper That we're told defines our level of intelligence.We aim for it and strive for it, And class any "distractions" as irrelevant.
A letter on a piece of paperThat makes us push ourselves to work harder and harder. It convinces us that 1, 2, 3 hours more of revision Will make us just that bit smarter.
A letter on a piece of paperThat we think will "kiss it better". We push all other stresses to the back of our minds And convince ourselves that relaxation and self-care are for later.
A letter on a piece of paper That we think defines our entire being. It becomes a filter, a lens, a special effectThat distorts our way of seeing.
A letter on a piece of paper That consumes our sense of self. It make us attack ourselves emotionally and physically And compromises our mental health.
A letter on a piece of paper That is a goal post forever changing. We give up laughing with our friends and familyAnd do some dangerous priority rearranging.
A letter on a piece of paper That tries to categorise us into a box. It forces us to question If we are smart or "good" enough or not.
A letter on a piece of paper That made my mental and physical health burn out And made the certainty of my bubbly care-free nature Become something I began to doubt.
A letter on a piece of paper Was something I once dreamed I'd receive. Yet, after being awarded it, I couldn't allow myself to feel relieved.
A letter on a piece of paper That trapped me in a vicious cycle Of working harder, of eating less, Of running just ONE more mile.
A letter on a piece of paper That made my clothes wear me. It made me cry, shout and feel lethargic And it made it impossible to stay at uni.
A letter on a piece of paper That resulted in me writing this from a hospital chair. But, looking back on what I put myself through, why the hell did I care
About a letter on a piece of paper Instead of about myself? Was it worth choosing revision over everything Or choosing skinny over my health?
A letter on a piece of paper That only now I can clearly see. My only focus, my only goal Was on a letter that, in fact, damaged me.
A letter on a piece of paperIs not the be all and end all of everything in life. You are intelligent regardless of test scoresAnd a letter shouldn't compromise doing the hobbies you like.
A letter on a piece of paper Speaks nothing into who you are, Or what you’re worth, or what you deserve, Because God made you fearfully and wonderfully and loves you from the heart.
After all, a letter on a
piece of paper Is all it will ever be. But you are so much more than that. You don't have to find that out the same way as me.
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